Lessons from Our Move: Part 2
When Obedience Doesn’t Make Sense
When my husband and I first began praying about a possible move out of state, we quickly realized we processed the idea very differently. He preferred to stay quiet while we researched and prayed, not wanting to create confusion if the move didn’t happen. I, on the other hand, process best through conversation. I longed to invite trusted voices into the decision early, to talk it through and seek wisdom.
Neither of us was wrong—we simply approached it differently. In the end, I chose to honor his desire for privacy while our plans were still taking shape.
As doors began opening, it became clear that this move wasn’t just logistical—it was deeply spiritual. Yet following God’s leading doesn’t always look neat or logical. Sometimes obedience takes you into unfamiliar places and stretches you beyond your comfort zone.
The transition has taught me that obedience can be lonely at times. There are moments when what God is asking of you may not make sense to those around you. But He sees the bigger picture—and He’s faithful to meet you in the middle of uncertainty.
We also had practical reasons for the move—financial realities, opportunities for our children, and a longing for more space to breathe. But beneath it all was a quiet sense that God was inviting us to trust Him in a new way.
Even when the journey felt misunderstood or questioned, I’ve seen His hand guiding gently, opening doors I didn’t even know existed.
Along the way, He’s reminded me of a few things I’m still learning to hold close:
1. Different isn’t wrong—just different
My husband and I process decisions in opposite ways. I like to talk; he likes to think quietly. At first, that difference created tension, but I’ve learned it’s part of the way God designed us to balance each other. Unity doesn’t mean sameness—it means love and respect in the middle of difference.
2. Obedience doesn’t always make sense
Following God’s leading can look confusing from the outside. Sometimes obedience means letting go of things that once felt essential, or stepping into something new before you understand it fully. But peace often follows on the other side of surrender.
3. Stewardship is spiritual
Part of this move was practical—seeking a more sustainable way of life for our family. I used to think spiritual decisions were separate from financial ones, but I’ve come to see that wisdom and stewardship are forms of faith too. God calls us to trust Him and to make choices that honor the life He’s given us.
4. True friendship gives space for grace
During seasons of change, you notice who walks alongside you with gentle understanding. I’ve learned that the truest friends are those who listen, encourage, and trust God’s work in your story—even when they might have chosen differently for themselves.
5. Grace goes both ways
It’s easy to want understanding from others, but harder to extend it when we feel unseen. I’m learning that grace means keeping my heart soft, even toward those who process differently than I do. Love doesn’t demand agreement—it simply chooses to stay open.
This move has stretched and refined me. It’s teaching me that obedience often begins where certainty ends—and that the discomfort of change can become a sacred space where faith grows deep roots.
If I’ve learned anything, it’s that God’s will doesn’t always come with a clear map. Sometimes He just asks us to take the next faithful step—and trust that He’ll meet us there.
💭 Reflection for You:
Have you ever felt God leading you somewhere that didn’t make sense at first? What helped you take the next step anyway?
